Its never about being popular. If your going that way your doing it wrong.If you worry how ppl think of you. You have then a problem of who worships who issue.Do they love me more then you? It shouldnt matter. Do they respect you more then me? Thats all jeoulsy. It should never be about who is favored the most.There is however one Executive descion above all in the guild, if they run it that way.The guild is in the guild leaders image its never meant to change into yours.There is nothing immoral if they don't follow your image ideals.
If you open up for people to decide/vote you opens up doors for power tripped ppl to mutiny.You can allow ppl to give suggestions, opinions, feedback, and if you wish give polls. If you've founded upon that you have deciding factor then thats your call as leader.Foundational means it cannot be moved by force. Either way you wish to move the foundation you have to rebuild.Ir one wishes it to be rebuilt/change it then they can go and build themselves what they will.Its never a persons place to usurp authority in a guild.
If the clique of status quo doesnt want the back end work to build a guild from ground up . Its not there place to use another to make it their own.If they cannot handle the heat in the kitchen being in guilds after guilds its not there place. To rip, tear apart the guild and guild leader at the seems and make them leave or make them quit is wrong. Cook in your own kitchen from scratch, don't make a mess of other peoples kitchen that was built from ground up.Time & money was involved with lots of stock into it. They couldnt't handle the heat in the kitchen, not can they on their own accord.Drama will follow them and someone else will be the next target, and whines,discontent and complaints will yet again happen.
Love others more then yourself, and not worry how much ppl love you. There wil be always someone who ends up hating you and persaude ppl to hate you with them.
You can't please everyone, and when a person cries/yells in actions "respect me or I'm going to continue to yell" is just "kiss my ass, and bow down and worship me". Though worse is asking respect me , its not its demanding it.Words of a loaded gun pointed at your head of hatred.
by Shinystar-Wes on 2012-08-08 02:24:27
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